This is one thing i have been trying to rant on for quite sometime.
Is it me or some people find it convenient to just give out someone's cell number or BB Pin without asking them?

So i met this dude at a party one time. For starters i wasn't feeling him in the sense that i just saw him as part of the mix in the crowd, was 99.1% sure that i wont see him again after the party, i think he was trying to strike a convo and i made a rude comment, you know when you replay the convo in your head one would have assumed that he would not talk to me after that, but guess what when he was leaving he came to say goodbye and the following morning. I got a BB request. It was him.

One of the Judas's called "a friend" gave him my PIN.

Okay i am sure you are like "it shouldn't be a big deal"
Maybe it isn't, some hunters make sure they go for the kill and won't rest till the get it, my "friend" just handed me like prey.And not only that she downloaded "gist" about me like, the guy already thought he knew who i was before getting my PIN.

This is a personal issue. I really have a problem with people giving out my cell number or BB Pin or any personal info without contacting me first. If i had to ask, i wouldn't mind if you asked the BB pin owner or cell owner as in "She asked for you number is it okay if i gave it to her?" Yes or no would work. Unless your cell number has been on a flyer, is standard on a website or published as a business point of contact i wont give it out. You wont hear " I got your number from Lola". Trust me you would have gotten a text first or i would have called you.

It is the same chic who gave out my PIN that is  now lamenting out of self pity that she introduced the guy to me, maybe if she had asked me what had ensued between the guy and myself before giving out my PIN, she would have been in a better position to judge.
Anyway what are your thoughts.
I really want to know.


  1. Arrrrghhhhh!!!! First of all, I am EXTREMELY selective as to who I add on my bbm. Now, those who are on my bbm, to a very large extent, know this and usually alert me before giving out my pin or in the case where they think they were boxed into doing so, they tell me right after, just for my information.
    I also have 0 qualms letting an "invite" sit for months.In fact, i outrightly block some of those invitations. I leave other channels open. You can call me, we can text-chat, but that BBM?, nah mate! It's not automatic!
    I do the same for my friends too. I dont just share their pins out like party favour, what's that? LOL

    1. Lmao at share pins like party favors.....
      Your BBM must be a serious immigration checkpoint.
      I thought i was an offender, you are convicted mehn.

  2. Amen!!!! I mean, what's so hard about " "She asked for you number is it okay if i gave it to her?" Seriously, what??

    1. My dear, thank you ooooo. some folks just love taking matters into their hands then eventually play victim later. Anyhow love, since love found you you take visa waka comot from blogville whats up with that?

    2. Lmaooo I never find love abeg. See en, I've been all over the place but i'll settle it and do better soon

    3. okay oh, good to hear from you, i need to read more of your adventures

  3. Hahahahaha, kini big deal, kini big deal? If it's for business purpose or for a professional service; I really don't need to tell you first, I will give it out and then tell you afterwards.
    Some years ago, the internet happened to be a secretive place where people couldn't just add you up without you knowing or meeting them somewhere somehow before, but in today's world it's a new story.

    For me, I don't have problem with people giving out my phone number or BBM pin, reason is because I believe maybe there is a help i can render to the person at such a time, secondly I don't have a public or a private life. My life is for Christ, and I live it openly in accordance to the Word of God.
    If you add me up and after starting a convo with you, "If you say nothing" I will leave you there for a month or two months" but if you become idle for a month i won't hesitate to delete the person.

    Lola I know when it comes to women it can be a big deal, yeah a big deal for the women.
    *Scratches Head*

    1. Haha deleting after months without talking, so what was the point of the person adding you in the first place... i though ti was business.. hmm Demola this your logic i dey fear oh, but it is a man's point of view

    2. Lol, you don't really need to agree with me on this but the truth is that such is LIFE


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