tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post4833624378135484223..comments2023-08-20T03:21:44.618-07:00Comments on WHISTLING BEAUTIFUL: COS EVEN YOUR BOO GET A BOOWhistling Beautifulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07854099304327827298noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-68339822345124723422015-12-09T23:10:08.527-08:002015-12-09T23:10:08.527-08:00lmao.. Thats an open relationshiplmao.. Thats an open relationshipWhistling Beautifulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854099304327827298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-7125940552507482692015-12-09T10:40:53.497-08:002015-12-09T10:40:53.497-08:00It is funny that we're discussing cheating as ...It is funny that we're discussing cheating as something new. Is cheating new ? Don' t we cheat God ? .... Some of us are traitors, we refuse to change our ways and we complain when people jilt us for being the bad eggs.<br />I am not justifying cheating, we must kill it or else it rob us of our happiness. Now am laughing in my native tongue, even if a lady has something to bring to the table, how important are the things she's bringing to the table. Be it university certificate, beauty or rich parents there is more to marriage menu than things mentioned earlier. Having ones eyes on good ladies or guys will worsen the matter. God doesn't engineered perfect beings, He want us to work out our own perfection. If am not good, why should I pray for a good lady. Am ripe for marriage but am not considering it because I am yet to finish brushing up myself in terms of my attitude, thou I am not that bad, but we all need to be open to change. We must strive to be what we want others to be. We should be ready to love people the way they're. It pays to be true to oneself. For the meantime, let keep improving ourselves in all areas as we wait for love and if when we find one, let us love till it suffice......... O .Oluwafemi Ebenezer. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09518370034482945128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-74277688490643629262015-12-04T11:40:13.548-08:002015-12-04T11:40:13.548-08:00Seun Cole wrote: MY cuzzo sef has the same talent ...Seun Cole wrote: MY cuzzo sef has the same talent I have. Ability to put together words that not only make sense but enjoyable to digest. Well Done. Fact is that this is the status quo is many relationships but then if you dig deep in some cases u'd find out that there were some instances in the foundation of the relationship where it was clear that the boo will also have a side boo. Behaviors aint spontaneous :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-78342605910080257812015-10-29T11:55:30.230-07:002015-10-29T11:55:30.230-07:00It is really sad that this is what relationships h...It is really sad that this is what relationships have come to. No integrity, and it is getting worse. I believe in the 'last 10% rule.' There are still good guys and girls out there, and I will end up with one of them. I don't mind waiting, abeg. @ilolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18034184376612190658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-86007377515510152442015-10-29T01:20:07.808-07:002015-10-29T01:20:07.808-07:00LMAO. Sharon said "side chickism". I lov...LMAO. Sharon said "side chickism". I love that word, but yes oh my dear it is the world we live in and a lot of insecure females who do not value themselves. It is sad but we females always feel the need to be loved and after that, that type of love becomes an unhealthy obsessionWhistling Beautifulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854099304327827298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-57503087825185254902015-10-28T21:54:04.634-07:002015-10-28T21:54:04.634-07:00Lola, kudos for sharing your experience. It took ...Lola, kudos for sharing your experience. It took guts o. I hail you!<br /><br />I think this side chick matter comes down to self-worth. Why would you want to be a side chick when you can, and in fact, should be the one and only? Abi is exclusivity now old-fashioned? In this life, what goes around, comes around. Cheating is a choice, or sometimes, a series of choices that can ruin more than one person's life. Quite selfish.<br /><br />You did the right thing. It's better to be single than be a side chick. Side chick-ism shouldn't even be on the list of possible options for anyone who takes life seriously.Sharon Saluhttp://www.sharonsalu.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-58401197874048592202015-10-27T12:02:13.369-07:002015-10-27T12:02:13.369-07:00My Puerto Rican princess, thank you for your comme...My Puerto Rican princess, thank you for your comment, defining your relationship is important but what happens when one person is out of sync. I have defined a relationship and my boo too decided to have a boo. My dear you don't ever want to enter one chance but life is full of risks and we have to take them. Cheaters cheat by choice and like Eche said who they cheat with doesn't have the same value as who they date, they won't replace so they supplement.Whistling Beautifulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854099304327827298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-9991658519396999672015-10-27T11:38:32.244-07:002015-10-27T11:38:32.244-07:00Lola this post is it... Uno some days back I was t...Lola this post is it... Uno some days back I was talking to a very close friend about dating and uno I told him when I was younger I felt dating was easy asin uno Cinderella story with prince charming but right now its more like really hard knowing the fact you can't just date anyone. In order not to get hurt ladies know your place! I have met a guy we acted literally like a normal couples after a while I became ackward cause when people asked I didn't know what to say I was forced to ask t he embarrassing question "what are we" he couldn't say anything was just beating around the busy thing is if I was art enough to make sure we defined our relationship since it wouldn't have gotten to that stage... If he dated someone I would have said he cheated but in the actual sense we were not dating... It boils down to the fact DEFINE YOUR RELATIONSHIP!! It would save you from hurt. Secondly cheating is a choice I say this a lot if you think you and your present partner are not flowing talk it out if it doesn't work call it out and move on.. Don't cause someone hurt.<br />Also ladies/guys if your present partner cheater on someone with you he or she is prone to still cheat again and again.<br />Caio.<br />By @the_igbogurlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-83430276489972633122015-10-27T08:20:19.751-07:002015-10-27T08:20:19.751-07:00Thank you my dear. :*Thank you my dear. :*Whistling Beautifulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854099304327827298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-70202593009403811032015-10-27T08:19:50.413-07:002015-10-27T08:19:50.413-07:00The fear of being single. That will be a blogpost ...The fear of being single. That will be a blogpost for another day, it is coming i promise. Sometimes it is better to be single than unhappy. Two things a woman should never run after a bus and a man, another one will always come. This also goes for men too. Another bus and another woman will definitely comeWhistling Beautifulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854099304327827298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-89531220795785141752015-10-27T08:16:38.643-07:002015-10-27T08:16:38.643-07:00What if your own bobo get another baby? That one i...What if your own bobo get another baby? That one is already one chance by itselfWhistling Beautifulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854099304327827298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-87524545614472554072015-10-27T08:15:29.438-07:002015-10-27T08:15:29.438-07:00Toin hey!!! Definitely will go and check it out......Toin hey!!! Definitely will go and check it out...Whistling Beautifulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854099304327827298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-22050336569414860802015-10-27T08:14:44.843-07:002015-10-27T08:14:44.843-07:00My dear, 140 characters on Twitter is not enough f...My dear, 140 characters on Twitter is not enough for Demola, he came and wrote PHD thesis on my postWhistling Beautifulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854099304327827298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-80390173217875608292015-10-27T07:15:05.179-07:002015-10-27T07:15:05.179-07:00Wonderful post Lola. :*Wonderful post Lola. :*Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12220457016445535553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-28230195903783411902015-10-27T07:13:59.415-07:002015-10-27T07:13:59.415-07:00Wonderful post Lola. I think many women are afraid...Wonderful post Lola. I think many women are afraid to be single so they settle for being a side chic. Me too I'm afraid to be single o but the difference is I don't like to share :) last one wins everytimeeeeeAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12220457016445535553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-37056412241061231422015-10-27T03:30:15.719-07:002015-10-27T03:30:15.719-07:00Oyinlola my dear..I love this!! Na true u talk oh!...Oyinlola my dear..I love this!! Na true u talk oh!lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16677989642080910985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-45033384456256443562015-10-27T02:37:08.396-07:002015-10-27T02:37:08.396-07:00Now, "even your boo get a boo"....how yo...Now, "even your boo get a boo"....how you wan take sabi the truth value of this? See ehn, especially for us ladies, only God can save us. We are either too paranoid or too complacent. Some guys are really really good. They'll run a whole season show on one and one aint even know it!<br />The only person's boo who you are sure of, is yours....any other thing, na one chance...Shine ya eye!HoneyDamehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06630155612892969091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-53420828055942632682015-10-27T02:34:59.443-07:002015-10-27T02:34:59.443-07:00LMAOOOOOOO...What Lola said! But I agree, it is a ...LMAOOOOOOO...What Lola said! But I agree, it is a vicious cycle. If she left a "nigga" for you. She will probably leave you for another "nigga".HoneyDamehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06630155612892969091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-31944669022698322122015-10-27T02:31:56.312-07:002015-10-27T02:31:56.312-07:00Girl, hi5! You nailed. Personally, I run from stre...Girl, hi5! You nailed. Personally, I run from stress. Anything that constitutes stress, physically/emotionally, i'm running away from. Simple<br /><br />P.S: I did my sisterhood award tag post. Check it out xoxoToinlicioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08672236565492184927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-48183326739782651142015-10-27T02:17:21.044-07:002015-10-27T02:17:21.044-07:00Na my name be that ooo, lol. Guest-post ?
Hmmm, I...Na my name be that ooo, lol. Guest-post ?<br /><br />Hmmm, I am very interested, but for now? <br />Education ni ooooiAmFridayDemolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13569734989422799352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-12918249211040935762015-10-27T01:12:17.584-07:002015-10-27T01:12:17.584-07:00Demola ooo You need a guest post!!! I will read th...Demola ooo You need a guest post!!! I will read this over again. Whistling Beautifulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854099304327827298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982089759574124755.post-40696602505312360082015-10-27T01:05:39.670-07:002015-10-27T01:05:39.670-07:00Wow! *Hands up* It took you time to post this dear...Wow! *Hands up* It took you time to post this dearie, but to be sincere i commend you specially on this one. Well done<br /><br />You have stated very well most of the reasons why men cheat over their woman.<br />I don't like talking about things in the past okay, but let me quickly put up some essay here for your readers to enjoy.<br /><br />CHEATING can be planned or unplanned for, how and why?<br />I first of all want to say, I broke up with my dream-girl in 2008 over this cheating of a thing. She started keeping more male-friends, and admirers; which led her to be going out more with them than me the village boy who knew little.<br />She was a virgin though, but the guy who went in on her is just few houses away from my parents house (He's a rich man's son, my street friend) He did not force her, it was her choice! The news broke in the neigbhourhood which i was even called mumu for keeping her V. But you cannot blame me, that's my dream and plan for her, i was protecting her; but she wanted more that that. Lola don't even pity me ooo lol.<br /><br /><br />Few years later, i tried to keep other relationships but my heart was not ready to fight for them, so i had to let go.<br /><br />There is a female friend, christian, she is a V as well, based in U.S; you know I be Lagos person na, we were just close friends, she called me egbon, she had someone she was dating then oo, like just dating with nothing attached, they were doing distance relationship, because they live in different state.<br /><br /> Along the line; we became best-friends oo, although she was still with the guy! Before we knew it; we started liking each other oo, it wasn't really 100% love, it was partly with lust, mehn it's naturally; when you keep in touch with someone regularly, there is probability for the two of you to fall in love (Atleast one person must fall in love with the other). When we were getting deeper, I had to sell my blackberry phone in order to quench the strange-feeling we had for each other, no communication, nothing nothing for a year.<br /><br />To me this is unplanned cheating, it just happened naturally.<br /><br />Let me talk about Planned Cheating.<br />A girl walked up to her boyfriend to demand for money for something, I don't have that kind of money for now - He said<br />She then followed her female friend to a club to meet that one's boyfriend, the boyfriend also came with his male friend. When her friend and boyfriend were talking, it was her and her friend's boyfriend's friend looking idle. This same guy has a girlfriend but it's complicated! The guy walked up to her, explained he has a girlfriend but they are not in good term, the lady said the same = So they started going out from there, both knew they were in relationship and CHEATING, this is PLANNED CHEATING.<br /><br />For some years now, I did not bother going into a relationship, neither am i sleeping with girls up and down, because I am not ready for one. But I have my eyes on good ladies who are single, committed to GOD, who are also not ready for one. <br />In less than 3years I will be done with my programme, by then I can now say I am ready.<br />But never will I run after a lady who already has a boo, because if I successfully get her away from her boo, I should not be surprised in the later if someone comes after her and get her away from me.<br /><br />So you understand what I am saying Lola? Lol, let me stop here.iAmFridayDemolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13569734989422799352noreply@blogger.com